Alright, let me tell you about this thing I did the other day. I got this sudden urge, felt really excited, you know? Decided I wanted to make a crossword puzzle. Not just any crossword, but something specific, something personal for a friend whose birthday was coming up.

So, I started by just thinking. What kind of stuff should go in it? Decided pretty quick it had to be about inside jokes, shared memories, stuff only we’d really get. Felt like a good challenge.
Getting the Words Down
Grabbed a pen and some scrap paper. Just started jotting things down. Didn’t worry about fitting them together yet, just brainstorming. My list ended up looking something like this:
- Nicknames we used
- Places we always hung out
- Funny things that happened on trips
- Favorite foods or weird snacks
- Names of old teachers or bosses we disliked
Got a pretty decent list going. Felt good just getting those ideas out.
Building the Grid – The Hard Part
Okay, this was tougher than I expected. I sketched out a rough grid on some paper. Then I tried slotting the words in. Man, it’s like a jigsaw puzzle trying to get everything to interlock right. Lots of erasing. Had to change some words, find shorter or longer alternatives sometimes. I was really curious about how these things are actually designed professionally, ’cause doing it by hand took ages. Spent a good couple of hours just shifting words around, trying different layouts until one kind of clicked.
Writing the Clues
Once the grid looked okay, I moved on to the clues. This was actually pretty fun. For each word in the grid, I wrote a clue. Tried to make them a bit cryptic but solvable if you knew the context. Like, instead of just “That cafe we liked,” maybe something like “Spilled latte disaster zone (7 letters)”. Had to count the letters carefully for each one. Reviewed them to make sure they weren’t too obscure, but still needed a bit of thought.
Finishing Up
Checked everything over. Made sure the numbers on the grid matched the clue numbers. Checked the spellings again. Didn’t want any dumb mistakes messing it up. Drew a final, cleaner version of the grid and wrote out the clues neatly on a separate sheet.
Felt pretty chuffed with the result, honestly. It looked like a real crossword, but totally unique to us. Gave it to my friend, and yeah, they loved it. Watching them figure out the clues, laugh at the memories it brought up, that was the best bit. Took some effort, but definitely worth it.